My husband, like Greg, had a very high functioning brain as an attorney for almost 40 years. I suspect that he had AD for several years before it became too obvious for him to hide. He practiced law and would absolutely get it together when meeting with clients. It was amazing to think about after the fact. I think he was so relieved to finally retire because it was very hard for him to "perform" for clients and colleagues. He seemed to lose some cognitive ability soon afterward. Today he doesn't remember a lot of clients but if I ask him a question or try to discuss any legal issues, he seems to have the "light" switch on if only for a few minutes. This was so aptly said by Greg and I never thought of it this way. My husband is tired and wants to sleep and isolate himself most of the day. I think it is because he doesn't want to engage with people because of his confusion. He goes to dialysis 2 days a week and doesn't engage with any other patients there. It is frustrating for me to watch the decline especially when I think he could benefit from activities. I am still trying, though.
