Your story rings to exactly my life. We are not married so I don't have a lot of options as a spouse does. He yells at me because he thinks I am controlling him. He just retired from truck driving because of some severe violations. The worst is he drinks excessively. He doesn't realize how much he drinks. He still drives the car so goes on "errands" daily for 2/4 hours and goes to a bar or buys alcohol and puts it in water bottles so he believes we don't know.
I work fi home and at end of my rope.
